I'm not sure if I should be writing this entry before or after the event. Then I realised that there aren't many people who read this at all: Phuong, Winnii, Nikki, Luce, Judy.. Maybe that's the whole list. So, based on that list, I realised that I would prefer to write down my state of mind right now, then try to remember this feeling after next month. But this is supposed to be hush hush, so if you're reading this, and you're not supposed to know (like I'm not supposed to know), then shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
I found out recently that Trinh is getting married.. Next month. But I'm not invited to the wedding. Nor are any of the girls, with the exception of Jenny. Trinh wants to keep it so low key that she just wants to go to dinner with the two families. I was actually shocked when I heard, because I had just been thinking who would get married next, after Kenna. And I immediately thought Trinh. As soon as I started thinking that, I was imagining what her wedding would be like, what kind of dress she would wear, the party she would want to have, with all her friends around. Then I get the news: dinner with the two families. And her folks still dont' know yet that the wedding is next month...
*scratches head*
I'm still in two minds about this. Ofcourse I want her to be happy, and if getting married this way makes her happy, then that's great. But at the same time, I'm actually.. sad. Trinh has always been easy going, and she can go from one extreme to the other. So yes, it's perfectly within her to not do anything as big as her wedding, or lavish out expensively on a big party. But it's her wedding. Her wedding. I'm just uncertain, because I hope she doesn't regret this choice..
I've noticed that she's slowly withdrawn herself from the girls over the past year. I think maybe the last time she came out with us was my birthday last year. She didn't come to Kad's last month, or Winnii's, or Lee's as well. I'm worried about her. Well, if she's happy with Miguel, then great, but I find it hard to believe that Miguel wouldn't have asked if she wanted to ask the girls to the wedding. He's a nice guy, and he's decent, so I really do believe it's Trinh's choice to have a low key wedding.
Hmm... Let's wait and see, shall we?
Anyway, regardless of what she does, or how she does it, I do hope it makes her happy.
And again, you didn't hear it from this site...
I found out recently that Trinh is getting married.. Next month. But I'm not invited to the wedding. Nor are any of the girls, with the exception of Jenny. Trinh wants to keep it so low key that she just wants to go to dinner with the two families. I was actually shocked when I heard, because I had just been thinking who would get married next, after Kenna. And I immediately thought Trinh. As soon as I started thinking that, I was imagining what her wedding would be like, what kind of dress she would wear, the party she would want to have, with all her friends around. Then I get the news: dinner with the two families. And her folks still dont' know yet that the wedding is next month...
*scratches head*
I'm still in two minds about this. Ofcourse I want her to be happy, and if getting married this way makes her happy, then that's great. But at the same time, I'm actually.. sad. Trinh has always been easy going, and she can go from one extreme to the other. So yes, it's perfectly within her to not do anything as big as her wedding, or lavish out expensively on a big party. But it's her wedding. Her wedding. I'm just uncertain, because I hope she doesn't regret this choice..
I've noticed that she's slowly withdrawn herself from the girls over the past year. I think maybe the last time she came out with us was my birthday last year. She didn't come to Kad's last month, or Winnii's, or Lee's as well. I'm worried about her. Well, if she's happy with Miguel, then great, but I find it hard to believe that Miguel wouldn't have asked if she wanted to ask the girls to the wedding. He's a nice guy, and he's decent, so I really do believe it's Trinh's choice to have a low key wedding.
Hmm... Let's wait and see, shall we?
Anyway, regardless of what she does, or how she does it, I do hope it makes her happy.
And again, you didn't hear it from this site...
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